
after four and a half years of brutal, mechanized, devastating combat.

This spring, I stood with my husband and a thousand
others under the Menin Gate in Ypres, Belgium that memorializes the 55,000
British and Commonwealth Great War soldiers who died defending the town, and whose
remains were never found. The crowd stood in respectful silence as a bugler
played “The Last Post.” (Much like “Taps” in the US.) Uniformed veterans placed a wreath, and an
international choir of teens from Russia and Scotland joined in singing “May
the Road Rise to Meet You” and “Only Remember What We Have Done,” with the
gate’s high arch amplifying their exquisite voices. Then the crowd, young and
old, joined in singing the E.U.’s anthem. The atmosphere was reverent, somber,
and resolute; they would never forget.
sacred experiences of my life. That same reverence for honoring the memory of
the fallen permeated each Great War monument, cemetery, and museum I visited in
France and Belgium. Immaculate cemeteries and well-visited shrines bore testament to the gratitude and respect still paid in Europe, even by the young, even though it was great-grandpa, perhaps, or great-uncle who was lost, and they wouldn’t even have known him.“The Last Post” has played every night at the Menin Gate since the monument was first erected soon after the war (except for a few years during World War II).
My research made me love those Great War soldiers. Learning about their lives gave them faces in living color. For many of us, they are names in our family tree that perhaps we’re unaware of. (Genealogy websites like Ancestry.com and FamilySearch.org would be glad to help you locate them.)
This Armistice Day, let’s do something to help a living veteran, thank a living veteran, and remember a veteran who died, and why. Remembering the human faces and names of the fallen, and remembering their sacrifices with solemnity, may be the best insurance we have against sliding recklessly back into the national sins that started the last century’s wars. Will the teens who sang “Only Remember What We Have Done” under the marble arch of the Menin Gate look the other way while society devolves into the inequalities and bigotries of the prior century? I pray not.
Paying respects isn’t just for the fallen. It’s for us. A little somber gravity won’t hurt us. Gratitude is good for the soul. Remembering why is good for the body politic, and for peace for our children and grandchildren to come.